Unique Wedding Ideas – How to weave them into your wedding

Finding unique wedding ideas is a common request from couples

Most couples say finding unique wedding ideas is really important. Searching for the latest wedding trends is often the first thing they do. Trends can be fun but they aren’t truly unique because everyone is doing them!

To be truly unique look closer to home.

Simply following a trend doesn’t make your wedding unique. The ‘unique’ happens when you inject your own personalities.

No other couple is quite like you. Your love story is unique, so this is where you begin.

Identify the romantic, fun, cute and even humorous or annoying habits which make you click. How did you meet; where; what do you have in common; when did you know they were ‘the one’?

How would your friends describe you both? What don’t they know about you?

Incorporate ideas into favours, colour schemes or signature drinks. Table names and invitations are an easy way to weave your unique personal story into the day.

‘Unique to you touches’ reflect your individuality and truly make your wedding different from anyone else’s.

Where do you find unique wedding ideas?

Some couples know exactly what they want for their wedding. Other couples haven’t a clue where to begin. Understanding the cost of things is also difficult when you’ve never ordered large cakes or photographers before.

Couples with a clear vision don’t necessarily know how to make it happen.

A great place to start is searching wedding blogs. I’m delighted you’ve found mine! Social media, Pinterest and printed magazines (if you can find any) are packed with ideas.

Quick list of unique wedding ideas to work into your day

Make the little details all about you

• Add the flowers from the first bunch your partner bought you to your stationery design.
• Important locations are popular for table names e.g. where you met, proposed, first kiss.
• Add a map of your honeymoon destination to your table plan.
• Include your furry family members onto your wedding cake.
• What reminds you of loved ones no longer with you? Incorporate their favourite flower, sweets, song or something that comes to mind to make their memory part of your day.
• Choose your favourite cocktail as a signature drink or treat yourselves at your drinks reception.
• Can your chef work your favourite date night meal into your menu or evening buffet?
• Fun wedding favours are a great way to make a nod to your hobbies or careers.

Too much inspiration can be overwhelming.

Have fun with it but don’t get obsessed. You don’t need to go mad. Less is often more when it comes to choosing the finer details.

Having a theme is helpful but don’t tie yourself to it. Suddenly your house will be under siege by theme-relevant bits and bobs.

Keep a tight reign on your spending. Be strict with yourself. Twenty pounds here and ten pounds there will dwindle your budget very quickly. Make a note of every little thing you buy on your spreadsheet, even if it’s five pounds.

Work in a couple of unique details but don’t go mad!

Search Insposa for unique wedding ideas to make your own

Browse real weddings and styled shoots to find ideas then make them unique by adding your personal touches.

You’ll find wedding ideas for your wedding cake, wedding flowers, wedding reception and wedding venue across the website.

Before you start planning, get professional wedding advice

I’m not trying to sell you my services for the sake of it. I assure you, I can’t highlight enough the importance of getting professional advice early on.

Whether you take advice from me or someone else, please speak to an experienced wedding professional before you make too many decisions.

Who is an experienced wedding professional?

Well it’s rarely someone who planned their own wedding and is now a self appointed expert. I’m referring to experienced event organisers who have co-ordinated and managed events in a professional capacity.

Whether those events are weddings, corporate events or parties, the experience we have means we know the right questions to ask, the pitfalls, trip hazards and money saving ways to work your budget.

My wedding advice session is £250 and helps get your plans into order. Ideally suited for couples at the start of their wedding planning journey your appointment can be adapted to suit what you specifically need. You’re welcome to contact me to find out what it entails if you’re not sure.

Read my article about whether wedding planning advice is right for you.

Committing to a cake maker or florist can be daunting when you don’t know them. Finding a photographer can seem impossible. There are so many photographers not to mention photography styles.

Do you know what is or is not a reasonable price for a photographer, the best way to spread your flower budget or how much wedding cakes cost?

Are you aware the true cost of a DIY wedding is often much more expensive and stressful than you think it is?

Wedding planning is notoriously stressful, months even years before the wedding. My advice is take your time, do your homework and don’t make rushed decisions.

Don’t rush into choosing your wedding venue

Choosing the right wedding venue is also key. Your decision will affect every other aspect of your wedding day including the atmosphere and most definitely your wedding budget. Don’t rush into it. Don’t book the first venue you see.

Think about your unique love story again. Does the venue compliment this or cancel it out?

Venue hunting is a little like house hunting. You need to see lots of houses to get an idea of what you like and don’t like. There are so many considerations such as location, cost, practicality, space and the general feeling you get when you’re inside.

Even if you think you’ve found the perfect venue go and see a few more. If nothing else this will confirm your feelings towards your favourite.