The style and theme of your wedding is NOT the most important thing about your wedding.

The most important thing is the two of you starting your new life together. There is undoubted, and unavoidable, pressure when planning a wedding, whether large or small. Pressure from the budget, expectations, traditions, family and friends. Have the confidence to go your own way and don't feel you have to have something just because someone else says you should. If it matters that much to them, let them pay for it!